July15
This is not MY first trip without the boys. I’ve taken two. A 3 night trip to Vegas with the girls last October, and a 2 night trip to NYC with Candy for a client’s party this past May. Once I’m on the plane, I’m fine. It gives me extra assurance that they are with their dad.
They have done overnight stays with my parents. We drop them off at 6 PM for our date night. We pick them up at 10 AM the next morning.
This is OUR first trip away from them for more than 16 hours. We’ll be okay once we get there, and are distracted by the events of our trip.
I totally trust my parents and Doug’s parents. They spend a lot of the time with the kids and see them every week.
Also, I think I’ll suggest that my parents take them out to dinner on Saturday night – Zander loves Old Chicagos.
They have been loving the audio books from Wendy’s kids meals. I ordered a CD with 7 new stories on it, and it came today. I won’t let them know its here until we have to leave.
I did find out that Joshua probably won’t be here the weekend that we are going to be out of town. But, they always have a good time there anyway, so I’m sure they can be kept distracted.
I’m not worried about the daytime. Both grandparents homes have lots of toys, let them watch tv channels we don’t normally watch, and have outdoor toys as well. My mom and dad have a little pond with a waterfall, and the sprinklers, of course. Doug’s parents have a small wading pool and a motorized kid size golf cart.
It’s the nighttime I’m anxious about. The boys will share a full size bed at each grandparents house, and they know they are welcome to come into the grandparents room if they get scared or lonely. We’ll call each night around bedtime to say good night.
Doug’s parents don’t have a lot of luck getting the kids to go to bed (we came home from a party at 11 PM and they were still awake!), but my dad is really good at it.
I know that they will be okay, and that I will be able to relax more once we leave. I mean, it’s not like I’m going to turn around and come home once we get on the plane, so I might as well enjoy it, right?