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They’re here! They’re really really here!

May29

yippee  yay  My parents are now residents of Colorado Springs!  Yippee!   bliss

Mom and Dad left NJ on May 22.   I went to all this trouble to plan their itinerary, with my dad’s condition of driving just 8-10 hours per day.  Well, what he didn’t mention was that he was going to start driving at 4:30 AM.  They were at my first planned stop by 1 PM their first day!  Thanks to cell phone coverage, our high speed internet connection and TravMatix, I was able to adjust their itinerary on the fly – their one requirement of a hotel that accomodated parking their U-Haul fulfilled.

The first night they stopped in Indiana, the next night, they were already in Hays, KS!  They arrived a full day earlier than expected.  I heard some vehicle noise outside, and ran out to open the garage door.  As the door lifted, I see my mom standing by their Mercedes, with my dad backing up their 26′ rented UHaul truck.   Right into the rear passenger door of the Mercedes.  My mom and I both screamed for him to stop – unbeknowst to my dad who HAD HIS WINDOW CLOSED and couldn’t hear it.  afraid  He punctured the door with a good size hole.  thatsnotright Once we told him what he had done, it was the first time I ever heard my dad drop the F-bomb.   giggle

Despite that, we had a warm welcome all around.  The kids were great – reaffirming my parents decision to move here.   happysigh 

THURSDAY
On Thursday morning we had a walk-through at the new house, and hired a guy to steam clean the carpets.  We met the current owners, a nice couple.  The husband grew up in the house.  His mother has passed away 2 years ago, he worked on fixing up the house to sell since then.  His wife took care of his mom until the end.  They were thrilled to know that grandkids would be playing in the house. 

My parents went to Denver to visit my sister, who is on bedrest at 35.5 weeks.  That night, Doug, Zander, Zevan and I met up with John, Tiffany and Eli at the zoo for opening night of the Wallaby Walkabout.

FRIDAY
On Friday, we had the closing!  The house buying process, especially the mortgage application, is grueling.  I didn’t do this much work when Doug and I bought either of our homes.   thatsnotright  That’s a whole other story.  Thankfully, our realtor/buying agent, John Hauber was a trooper through the whole process.  He nearly always answered the phone when I called, and if he wasn’t available, he called me back right away. callme

During the closing, while waiting on the call from the bank that the funds were there (another long story), my parents recounted their story of coming to the US and how they had to fight deportation.  Stuff I never even knew.  I think I need to start recording an oral history from my parents.

After the closing, we went over to Colorado Springs Utilities to transfer the services.  I have to admit, their customer service was quick and easy that day.  I was impressed.

After that, we went over to the house to start moving in.  Dad and I picked up the truck while Jeff, Kristi and Kylie waited at the new house.  Doug came and we started unloading around 1 PM.  Dani and Auri came by to help out for a while, too.  wave  After helping with the huge treadmill, Doug had to leave to work at the comic book store. which left dad, Jeff and I to finish unloading.  There were just 4 really BIG pieces, my dad’s treadmill, the dining room hutch and top and the headboard unit of my parents bed.  Thankfully my dad rented the appliance dolly – that’s a back saver!  We only had one near disaster when my dad almost dropped his end of the dining room hutch, but I was right behind him and helped him catch it before it hit the ground.  We took a short break around 3 PM to eat pizza and fruit.  We were done before 4:00 PM.  I couldn’t believe it went by so fast. I thought we’d be unloading for a lot longer!  Especially with such a small crew. 

Side note: Yes, Jeff rescued those kids after 3 hours of heavy lifting!  Even more reason he’s a HERO! superman

My parents had tons of stuff in storage and furniture that was living at various relative’s homes which they recollected and loaded onto the truck.  It was like a time capsule.  The dining room hutch and top were among the first pieces of furniture they bought, right after my brother was born in 1970.  There WAS a matching table and chair set which my brother threw away (yes, Fran, I think Dad’s a little bitter about that still  Kiss).  I remember eating at that table as a child.   The best was the pictures.  Two huge formal family photos…one from the mid 80s (the hair!) and one from a few years later.

We went back to my house to relieve Vikki and check in with the boys.  My mom cooked us beef sinagang for dinner while dad went back to his new house to unpack – his computer, of course!  We all had dinner together and then my parents went back to their new house to spend the night.

SATURDAY
Saturday morning, after breakfast, the boys and I went to their house.  The boys ran around while we spent some time unpacking.  After lunch, my dad set up the TV and we turned on PBS for the kids.   We went downtown and had lunch at Acacia Park, visited Uncle Wilber’s fountain and stopped by the comic shop where Doug was working.  We ended the day trip with a trip to Coldstone Creamery.  My parents went home so my dad could pack for his trip back (he has to go back to NJ to finish his Diaconate classes until June 17).  Around 8, my mom and I drove him to the Denver airport for his red eye flight to NJ. 

SUNDAY
Mom’s staying the nights at our place until dad gets back.  Mom got up early to go to Sacred Heart Mass at 7:30 AM.  Thankfully, she let me sleep in.  That morning, after breakfast, Mom, Doug, Zander, Zevan and I went to Territory Days.  We ran into Lindsey and her family at Bancroft Park, and met up with Candy & Misha over by Meadow Muffins.  It was a HOT day!  We took in the sights for a couple of hours and then headed home. 

We have been busy!  My house is a wreck, and I’m barely keeping up with laundry, but for now, it’s all worth it.  I’m SO excited and thrilled that my parents live here!   yay

~ 2.6 miles 26 minutes

May29

After helping Doug and Andy load the freezer into Andy’s truck, I ran from my mom’s house back to our house, up that *#(@! hill. Man, that hill is killer. It was all I could do to run at all after that. I ran about 1/4 up the hill and fast walked the rest of the wayAfter the hill, I ran/fast-walked another mile (half mile out and back).

After the run we went to Territory Days. No wonder I was so tired that I fell asleep at 9 PM!

2 miles 21:38

May23

I ran 2 miles today in 21:38 :)

Afterwards, the boys and I ran up and down our little road for fun :walking:

Dance, dance, dance!

May21
Tiffany, Maida and some dude Tiffany and Maida Maida Smooching Doug

Tiffany and I had a GREAT work out Saturday night dancing at Eden.  We danced our booties off.  Now, there’s a workout!   woohoo  woohoo   For a good part of it, we were the only ones on the dance floor, and even got up on the little stage to dance for the hubbies.   rofl

 djparty

It’s been a LONG time since we’ve been out.  uh The last time I went dancing was the last Mom’s night out (we need to do that soon!).  Even more fun – one of the go-go dancers was like a past version of my skinny self, and invited me to come dance on the stage with her   Grin

 stars  stars  stars KISMET ALERT  stars  stars  stars
On Friday, Tiffany’s husband John, who is our realtor, dropped off some paperwork for me.  While chatting, I mentioned that we had a babysitter the next night, and John said that he and Tiffany did, too.  That NEVER happens, so I took it as a good omen.  To add to that synchronicity, I called Tiffany from the restaurant at the very moment she was reaching for her cellphone to call me.  Then, when Tiffany told me at The Ritz that she had mentioned going to Eden to John, I told her that I mentioned the same club to Doug during dinner. 

Doug and I had dinner and drinks at Metropolitain  coffeedate before we met up with John and Tiffany at Sonterra Grill for Stoli Dolies.  gossip  We briefly walked through The Ritz before we decided to check out Eden instead.  Much better choice.

Of course, I paid for the late night drinks and dancing on Sunday morning.  I was a little hungover and dehydrated in the morning, so my run didn’t go as well as I hoped.  I ran the first two miles of my run, running but walked the rest of the way (a little over a mile).    sneakers

I’m wrecked today.  tired  I took a nice long nap with the boys this afternoon  sleeping

Moving burns calories

May19

So, I went for my run Thursday evening, after Doug got home from work.  I ran 2 miles in 20:20…that felt good!  New shoes, new shorts…  it’s all good. 

Today I went climbing with Rachel – nothing too crazy, I was already tired when I got there.  We did climb for an hour, one route after the other, so it was a good work out all around.

So far, so good.  I need to get into the rhythm of things so I can consistently work out.

I sent the last of the paperwork to the lender today for my parents house, and, surprise! my parents sent me a power of attorney, so that I could do the closing for them if need be.  I just want to be done with this whole house business.  It takes up way too much of my time.  My parents are loading up their UHaul this weekend (with the help of family and friends), and will head westward on Monday morning. 

Anyone want to help unload a truck next weekend?   Grin  It’s good exercise!  According to Balance Log, one hour of moving boxes and furniture burns 368 calories and one hour of unpacking boxes burns 215 calories.   giggle

Stress, stress, stress…

May16

Last week, the day after I started my period, I weighed in at 137! weightgain That’s right, up 5 lbs! noway  A week later, at the end of my period, I’m back down to a respectable 132.8. 

So…where’s my motivation squad?!  I need you!  I need help back on the wagon, pronto!  All the stress of being the mortgage/agent/buyer for my parents house here is taking its toll on me.  UGH! 

I’m STRESSED!   crazy2

Zevan’s birthday was April 18.  My parents came here April 24-29.  Doug’s mom’s birthday was May 8.  DEEP BREATH

Doug’s birthday is May 17 (tomorrow!).  Doug’s parents are taking us all out to dinner.  This weekend I hope to take Doug on his birthday date night.  We hope to close the house on May 26, which is the day my parents arrive with all their stuff, which means unloading and unpacking.   Bolt   Calgon, take me away!   bath1

As for me, I took a week off from running, to heal those shin splints.  The boys are pushing my buttons today and I can’t even begin to describe how my afternoon has been.   buried

So…  unsure

I bought new running shoes today!  running   And I’m going to run right now.

Happy Mother’s Day to Me!

May14

I slept in until 8 AM…  sleeping I got to take a shower without interruption this morning. bath

The boys helped my husband make banana pancakes with strawberries and whipped cream on top for breakfast.  eat 

I got a wonderful card they created on the computer and lots of flowers.  adoration

Then we went to the zoo today as a family. family4  On the way there, the boys told me “I love you THIS much, mama” and stretched their arms out wide.  So cute!   Grin

When we got back, we all napped together. familybed2

It’s been a great day! cloud9

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