Taking a break from the potty…
Still no full blown tantrums, but constant testing of limits and my patience
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I've decided we need a break from potty training. He refuses to go just because I ask him to. It's another platform for him to jump off of. 
So…I'm not going to ask him to go potty and he is not allowed to play any computer games while he's not going on the potty. Period. We'll see where that takes us. 
I'm too tired from all the other behavioral issues to deal with potty training on top of it all. 